If a man is at work, then that is the sole center of his world and nothing exists outside of that.The fact that a man doesn’t text you as much or as often as you’d like doesn’t mean he doesn’t care about you – he’s usually just focusing on something else and most men have a difficult time seeing beyond a given task at hand.This is hard for most women to understand because women can switch from one task to the next and back again with much more ease.We get a lot of questions that go something like: “I’m really confused, my boyfriend says he’s crazy about me and I’m the most amazing/wonderful/smart/funny/etc girl he’s ever dated but he always blows me off and he can’t hang out and doesn’t have time to talk on the phone or text back or take me out on dates and I really only see him late at night when he feels like it.” OK, maybe not exactly like that, but close enough.Soulja Boy might be all up in the news lately, and he might even be kicking it with Brittish Williams but his ex-girlfriend Nia Riley doesn’t seem to be losing any shuteye over it.The Love & Hip Hop Hollywood star posted a picture on her Snapchat that has gone viral of her snuggled up to her co-star Lil Fizz.Read on for universal male truths that can save your relationship and your sanity.I don’t know what the biggest relationship concern was back in the days of touch-tone phones, but these days, it’s all about a guy’s texting habits: why he used to text so much in the beginning and then stopped, why he takes so long to reply, why he disappears for days at a time, why his texts are so short, etc., etc.
If he says he really cares about you and misses you but then goes days or weeks without calling or making time to see you because he’s swamped at work, or some excuse along those lines, what he’s really saying is you’re not important enough to make time for.
The opposite is also true: a guy may be saying something with his words and instead, express how he’s feeling through actions.
For instance, let’s say a woman is in a truly amazing relationship and the only problem is her man has yet to say those three not-so-little words.
If you want to know where he really stands, pay closer attention to what he’s doing and put less emphasis on what he is and isn’t saying.
Hold onto your seats, ladies, this might come as a major shock: men to make you happy. I know it can sometimes feel like he’s intentionally trying to make your life more difficult, and while he may be driving you nuts, deep down all he really wants is to provide for you and give you what you need. Men aren’t women (sorry to throw another shocker at you there! They aren’t able to intuit the nuances and decipher the clues.